At first, it's exciting to move into a PG (Paying Guest) accommodation. A new city. new liberty. new individuals. However, nobody really tells you that the first month is a rollercoaster of emotions.
This is how my first month in a PG actually went.
1. It's Different on the First Night
You believe you are self-sufficient until 11 p.m., when you start to miss home.
It feels like there is a lot of silence. It's a strange room. There is a peculiar sense of "this is not my space yet," even if you share a room.
That first-night homesickness is never discussed.
But it passes, I promise.
2. Your experience can be made or broken by your roommates.
Sharing a room isn't enough.
You share:
• Cupboard area
• Points of charging
• Timings for turning lights on and off
• Occasionally, even food
Understanding habits is the main focus of the first week. One may awaken at five in the morning. Another might be on calls till midnight.
Communication is survival.
3. Budgeting Becomes Real
That monthly rent? Fixed.
But then come:
• Laundry charges
• Extra electricity
• Snacks
• Cab rides
• Random expenses
You quickly realize money disappears faster in a new city. The first month teaches you financial discipline the hard way.
4. The Safety Reality Check
Curfew timings. Entry registers. CCTV cameras.
At first, it feels restrictive.
Later, you realize, safety matters, especially in a new city.
Location, neighbourhood, and security systems suddenly become important.
5. PG Food Is A Modification
PG meals can be startling if you're used to eating at home.
It's decent on some days.
It's "eat for survival" on some days.
You begin to value small things like:
• Warm rotis
• Dal that is cooked correctly
• Fresh veggies
Many people end up:
• Ordering from outside
• Purchasing an induction cooker
• Having snacks on hand as a fallback
Smart advice: Always have extra Maggi or poha packets on hand.
